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a post stolen from a friends blog

A friend of mine wrote this and posted it to his blog,i liked it soi ak if i coud repost it, that way those of you o know can have a chance to read it………..thanks Sean. Enjoy…

Here is a quote.. and it’s so true..

“If we deny love that is given to us, if we refuse to give love because we fear pain or loss, then our lives will be empty, our loss much greater…”

For all of you who fear that a relationship wont work out because you’re afraid of things happening down the road that could be negative, your life will be EMPTY. Yeah you can say, “well I have friends” while that is true, there is this ONE human nature that needs satisfying, love.

We need someone to love us and someone to love. If I were to love someone and that person becomes scared and runs away because of a fear of pain and loss happening, all I can do is be there and support them. There are not a lot of people who holds the patience to deal with those who live in fear of broken relationships.

I have friends who are insecure in their relationships and I tell them, “communication is key” If you don’t communicate your fears or insecurities with those you love, how is it to work? Your love one needs to understand where you come from and how to help you within the relationship. Are they there to fix you? Of course not. They, however, will be there to be your number one support.

I came from a verbal and physical abusive relationship that did not end well. I do have my fears but I have learned that if you put yourself out there, it only builds the love between two people stronger. The person I love will understand where I come from and how to help me when I am in a time of need and vice versa.

Remember, if you are one who believes you are not relationship material, believe it or not, you are. You just need to find yourself and bring yourself to your lover’s attention. Gain strength through him or her and through your friends.

If you deny love that is given to you, you will most likely never find love at all. Don’t fear the pain or loss but yet conquer them by putting yourself out there by receiving support from those you love.

You cannot go on living an empty life. Embrace what you have and cherish it.

Keep it real,

SEan

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